Darkness Phobia

Darkness Phobia

Child who's fear of the dark, bedtime can literally become a nightmare and bad exposure.

Very sure you've heard about mother who had to sit beside her young child's bed every night until the child fell into their deep sleep. They will react in fear to any little movement when they aren't asleep.

Many mother would then assume that the child just need little extra attention as it was dark, but time after time it became clear that the child wasn't lying and has been terrified being in the dark.

There are many possibilities to why each child fear of the darkness. Its norm that we grew up having a little fear of the dark due to its uncertainty in many form of horror imagination. Several terrifying movies, exposed to various scary facial appearance and some funny little tease or surprises that happened within the darkness can bring oneself into developing serious darkness phobia.

A simple experience I encountered when I was 6 years old growing up in fear of darkness till today. My elder sister pounced on me from behind when I was walking along a dark corridor. Horrified by her sound and appearance, I ran away shouting and crying in fright and shivered. That funny gesture turn ugly when scolded by father and was warned not to repeat such act to anyone again. Then I always feel that darkness isn't always empty!

Children aren't born with such fears in them but has developed in times with bad darkness experience.

Therefore, advice all parent to ensure that their child knows that not all teasing is harmless, even if they thought and seem funny at time.

Looking Back Yet Moving Forward

Looking Back ...

Most people tend to spend too much time worrying and thinking about how to create good future while not having enough time to look back on memorable events spent with family and friends.

Freeze awhile focusing on what you wish to have or gain instead continue to celebrate what you have already had and enjoy the moment you have with family members and friends.

Even if you are all alone, think back and write some notes of what you've had and achieved.

It is important to set aside regular time sitting down and recall the greatest things ever happen and laugh a loud or simply smile. Have a thought of those people you misses and write about the memory you've had. Think of all funny gestures you've made or the person you think was making funny things around. Remember all surprises you've had.

It is healthy for married couple to talk about the first place they met, the first house they purchased and the fun you both had decorating together. Pick a picture from the album and talk about that happy moment and all the candid actions. Hang family photos around the house.

Having children will make a complete family. Play with your children. Get everyone involve and enjoy the childs play. Play simple game, play with the toys you've bought for your childs. Be childish, giggles and laugh along.

Set a date night watching old movies and make pop-corn instead of going out. Recall all great times on vacation and all friends you've made.

Reflecting the past will strenghten your families ties and great future. Stop worrying!

Right Career?

Right Choice!


Born with an ideal career?

Businessman, Doctor, Engineer, Lawyer, Stock Broker, with the predisposition to be one or just a matter of identifying an inborn talent?


If nature alone does not have a predominant role in determining the right career, then this lead into play a vast range of possibilities such as Upbringing, Social environment, Role Models, Opportunities and Knowledge gain which access and contribute to the shaping and development of personality.


A person has the potential to make radical change in the choice of career with exposure to new experience and training.


Fulfilling the requirements for a job involves many different aspects, including specialized training and management skills, propensity for preserverance and teamwork, workplace climate and scope of work for an individual to perform and excel.


Differences in any of these variables would give a strong impact on an individual personality to perform each task. Multitasking also contribute to various fluctuation of performance which not every one has the ability and capability to outshine as accordingly or as expected by higher management.


Jobs can be classified in several different ways. Mostly outdoor or indoor, dealing with equipment, documents, people, animals, metals, earth or agriculture.


The nature ofthe work can be clerical, technical, professional, managerial, trade and business. Specialist skills are required ranging from excellent psychomotor coordination to a keen nose, spatial conceptualisation, mathematical ability and abstract reasoning.


There are certain values and qualities needed inorder to fitly position one in each task and the workplace. Such as patience, preserverance, desire to produce high quality output or result, capacity for collaboration in teamwork, enggage in lifelong learning, setting high achievement goals, having an agreeable temperament without compromising on discussion and disagreement appropriately.


There are several ways understanding personality differences. It isimportant to acquire skills to work effectively in the global job market perspectives, be competitive, except changes and deliver high quality output.


Lastly, its also important to appreciate and respect different cultural, religious and ethnic practices.

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